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Hi. I love to write. Always have, since I was little. I wrote journals, letters, cards, etc… anything to express my feelings. Maybe it was because I was painfully shy as a child. Maybe a shrink would have a field day with me. Maybe I just like to hear myself talk. I don’t know but for years, I’ve wanted to blog. Not because I have anything particularly important to say but just because I love to write and express myself. Until now, I haven’t blogged anything, thinking that no one would care what I have to say. Sadly, I still think that’s true but I recently turned fifty and don’t care if anyone reads it or not. That being said, I am not super creative and am only able to write when something hits me. This may not make sense to everyone but generally, a topic finds me and I go with it. This just happened to me, so here it is!

I recently read a blog post by a local blogger. I will preface this by saying that I don’t know her, have no opinion on her and have never followed her blog. However, someone sent me a post of hers that presumably is loosely based on a friend of mine (and other local women). The topic is social media and the concept is that us fifty year olds shouldn’t be posting like fifteen year olds. To which I say…. blah blah blah. Here’s the thing, I completely, 100% disagree with her, and not only because I love the particular friend(s) that she may be referencing.

For starters, social media is just that… social! By its very definition, to be social is “…designed for activities in which people meet each other for pleasure” At fifty years old, I am not embarrassed to admit that I LOVE social media. I love the pictures on Facebook and Instagram, the news on Twitter and the connections on Snapchat. It’s fun, it’s a guilty pleasure (not unlike the current obsession with the Real Housewives) and, in most cases, it’s harmless. In today’s busy society, I love the privacy and ease of looking at my friend’s pictures, trips, families and pets. It makes me feel connected to people whom I can’t speak to or see on a regular basis. The cheesier the picture, the better! Who doesn’t smile watching their friends have fun? The head tilt, the hip prop, the duck lips… I LOVE IT ALL!! And, the best part about social media is that you don’t have to see anything that you don’t want to see! If you don’t want your feed clogged with bikini photos of friends, drop them, block them or do whatever you want. Just as it’s their choice to post what they want, it’s your choice to look elsewhere. Choices are a beautiful thing!

And, I have to admit that one the best parts of social media is that I’m fifty and not fifteen. At fifteen, I couldn’t afford to take these kind of trips, buy pretty things or experience these kinds of freedoms. I was shy, awkward and had really bad hair (feel free to ask my mom & sister about my swaggy Dorothy Hamill haircut). I would never have done silly things and posted them all over the internet (it didn’t exist then but my face on a microfiche would have sent me reeling). But now, I’m fifty and no longer the girl who cares. I love my life, my friends, my family and my dog. I love to travel, act ridiculously goofy and share with friends. I love when people comment on my posts and I love when we connect on social media. In short…. thank g-d I’m fifty and not fifteen.

  1. Tara

    October 15, 2017 at 10:00 pm

    Woohoo for you!! Can’t wait to read more…please don’t use my real name in your blogs. I know I’m bound to be in a few! 😜

  2. Sherri Warren

    October 16, 2017 at 3:01 am

    Love it!
    Can’t wait for more

  3. Jennifer Rudnick

    October 16, 2017 at 9:19 am

    Omg. So
    Proud and excited for u. Love u so much.

  4. Karen

    October 16, 2017 at 12:41 pm

    Awesome!! Cant wait to read more! and… im glad you’re 50 too!!! and, I love your diet!!

  5. Jennie

    October 16, 2017 at 1:11 pm

    Loved reading your first blog! Can’t wait to read more!

  6. Jen

    October 16, 2017 at 3:50 pm

    This is great! Wishing you best of luck!! ❤️

  7. Jodi hammer

    October 16, 2017 at 5:08 pm

    Love it!! You’re Awesome!

  8. NOREEN

    October 16, 2017 at 5:33 pm

    I love this! Long overdue!

  9. Stacey

    October 17, 2017 at 1:52 am

    This is amazing! Have fun with this blog and I look forward to reading and connecting! Best wishes😘

  10. Lisa levitt

    October 17, 2017 at 2:27 am

    You are amazing!! You are smart, sassy, funny, witty, comical & classy!!! Love that you are doing what you love! Can’t wait to read more.
    Best of luck!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  11. natalie wohl

    October 18, 2017 at 9:10 am

    I loved every word! Super proud of you!

  12. Shayndel Plotkin

    October 20, 2017 at 8:02 pm

    Thank you for sharing this with us! I love you even more!😘 And keep writing!!!!!

  13. Judy Leavey

    October 27, 2017 at 10:07 pm

    Just reading your blogs now – my computer was in the Apple hospital for a two weeks. Love your style and your observations. There is something magical about turning 50 – once I turned 50, I didn’t care either! It’s certainly freeing, and allows you to enjoy life even more! Looking forward to your entries. Love you!

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